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How You  Can  Deal With "What if" Fears &  Limiting Thoughts

These examples demonstrate how you can challenge your fears and self-doubt by having a better conversation with yourself, focusing on your skills, experience, and actionable steps to succeed in your current situation.

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Scenario 1: Leading a Project

Thought: "What if I fail to lead this project successfully and let my team down?"

What I Know Now: "I have successfully completed several projects in the past, demonstrating my leadership and problem-solving skills."

What Do I Have the Power To Do Right Now: "I can outline a project plan, delegate tasks effectively, and regularly communicate with my team to ensure we're on track."


Scenario 2: Giving a Presentation

Thought: "What if I stumble during my presentation, and everyone thinks I'm incompetent?"

What I Know Now: "I've done my homework, and I'm knowledgeable about this topic. I've also practiced my presentation and received positive feedback."

What Do I Have the Power To Do Right Now: "I can review my notes one more time, take a few deep breaths to calm my nerves, and focus on delivering a clear and concise presentation."


Scenario 3: Applying for a Promotion

Thought: "What if I'm not as qualified as other candidates for this promotion?"

What I Know Now: "I have consistently achieved and even exceeded my targets, and my manager has praised my work on several occasions."

What Do I Have the Power To Do Right Now: "I can highlight my accomplishments and skills in my application, ask for recommendations from colleagues, and prepare thoroughly for the interview."