When Leadership Feels Heavy, It’s Time to Lead Differently.

 

You’re not imagining it — leading people really does feel like a 24/7 job. Somewhere along the line, "being a leader" started feeling more like a burden than a badge of honor.  But it doesn’t have to be this way.

 

What if you could make decisions with calm confidence instead of second-guessing yourself every step of the way?

 

What if you could look back one year from now and realize you never had to sacrifice your peace for progress?

 

Sounds good? We've got room for you.

 

INTRODUCING

The Show Up Anyway Collective

 

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INTRODUCING

The Show Up

Anyway Collective

 

If you're at a crossroads where your expertise is undeniable, but your leadership is questionable, it's time to show up for yourself and others in a new way. 

 

Imagine navigating every situation at work—not just as a technical expert—but as an influential leader who effortlessly communicates even when faced with resistance, radiates confidence and inner calm, and influences others to action during meetings, interviews, and more.

 

We've got room for you.

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Leadership Reimagined. Lifestyle Redefined.

"When I think about the LIFE-CHANGING success you pull out of us, I am speechless."

Since working with Kandia I have presented $1.91M in services to prospective customers not to mention the $875K in revenue Kandia helped me pitch during the program. In addition to increasing my sales potential, Kandia helped me find my professional purpose, better define my role at work, build a Team Training Series called “30/30 Thursdays.

- Kyra Jones

CONSULTING MANAGER, DELOITTE

3 Months of LIVE Learning Experiences.  Coaching + An On-Demand Leadership Lab for Support During the Most Challenging Times of Your Day.

 

Success Takes Mindset, Method, and Message

I believe effective leadership starts with self-leadership.

 

The world will tell you to "be resilient" — to push through.' But the advice around resilience is often weaponized — a way to make you sacrifice your health, joy, and peace for someone else’s agenda.

 

True resilience isn’t about bouncing back quickly and how much you can endure — it’s creating daily rituals that honor your humanity, building support systems that fortify you, and knowing when to press forward or pause — because both are powerful leadership moves.

 

Your well-being isn’t separate from your leadership; it’s the source of it.

 

And that’s precisely why I created

The Show up Anyway Collective.

By the end of the

"Show Up Anyway"

Collective program, you’ll have mastered:

 

1.

Speaking up and leading with conviction,

especially when met with skepticism, disagreement, or criticism of your work or performance.

2.

Adapting your communication style

to win the hearts and minds when leading diverse teams, building relationships, managing conflict, and gaining buy in.

3.

Delegating like a pro

freeing up time to focus on what you do best and empowering your team to achieve their full potential.

4.

Becoming a master of delivering constructive

criticism and developing a feedback culture that fosters growth and success.

5.

Conquering your to-do list like a pro

mastering the art of prioritization and achieving work-life harmony like never before.

6.

Selling yourself and your ideas

confidently mastering the art of persuasion and building a personal brand that gets you noticed.

7.

Mastering your mindset

learning to overcome second-guessing and overthinking, and unleashing your full potential as a confident, resilient leader .

What’s inside the

Show up Anyway Collective

1.Everyday Leadership Rituals: Stay Calm, Focused, and Ready for Anything

Leadership is unpredictable, but your emotional state doesn't have to be. Learn the daily rituals and grounding practices that help you stay calm, clear, and collected before:

  • Difficult conversations (like giving feedback without fear of pushback)
  • High-pressure presentations (so you walk in with clarity, not chaos)
  • Navigating conflict (without losing your cool or second-guessing yourself after it’s over)

Go from stuck and overwhelmed following my templates and step-by-step plans to help you set priorities and make the most of your day.

2.Proven Leadership Frameworks (So You’re Never at a Loss for Words Again)

No more guessing what to say (or how to say it) when it matters most. Our signature communication frameworks give you the words, strategy, and structure to:

  • Deliver feedback that lands without defensiveness.
  • Respond to pushback with power and grace (instead of freezing).
  • Pitch your ideas and sell yourself in meetings, interviews, and client conversations.
  • Handle tough questions on the spot without feeling caught off guard.

No more "I should have said this instead" moments.
With these proven scripts, you’ll feel clear, calm, and confident in every conversation.

3.Unlimited Access to The Lunch & Lead Portal

 

Leadership isn’t a "9-5" job, and neither is your growth. The Lunch & Lead Portal gives you instant access to bite-sized leadership lessons, wellness resets, and "just-in-time" resources you can use when you need it most. 

Here’s what’s inside:

  • Quick-hit audio + video guides — Because sometimes you need support in this moment, not "after the next leadership retreat."
  • Templates, scripts, and leadership how-tos — From how to give feedback to handling pushback without defensiveness, you’ll have the exact words + phrases you need to lead with calm, clarity, and confidence.
  • Wellness-Driven Leadership Resets — Need to get grounded before a big presentation, conflict, or high-pressure conversation? Tap into the Lunch & Lead Portal for guided emotional well-being resets that help you show up with clarity, not chaos.

In the Collective, we don’t wait for the weekend to “rest and recover.

Want to go deeper? Join us in person.


Sometimes, you need to step away to reclaim your power — not just at work, but at home too.

 

As part of this coaching experience, you’ll have access to an optional 2-day in-person leadership retreat designed to help you reclaim your peace, renew your energy, and realign your vision for both work and home.

"Kandia has been my executive coach of 3.5 years. Her invaluable guidance and unwavering support have played a pivotal role in transforming my career, boosting my confidence, and revolutionizing my business processes."

 

Throughout our coaching journey, Kandia has demonstrated genuine care for my success. 

Her ability to actively listen, provide constructive feedback, and offer practical solutions created a safe and trusting environment for open dialogue and growth.

Not only did Kandia assist me in developing my individual skills, but she also played a significant role in enhancing my overall business processes. She introduced me to frameworks and techniques that helped automate and maximize my efficiency. 

Her encouragement during challenging times were instrumental in overcoming obstacles and achieving my goals.

- Sarah Morgan

VP of People Operations

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Here’s how it works:


On the First Friday of every month, we'll tackle a new challenge related to showing up and speaking up as a leader.

  • One monthly group live Q& A session with Kandia
  • A supportive community of like-minded leaders.
  • Learn on the go, whenever and wherever you choose.

Need LIVE practice and support when speaking confidently and persuasively about your experiences, skills, and ideas during meetings or interviews? 

 

No worries. We've got you covered.

Level up your conversational skills with practice your pitch hot seat sessions.

What’s inside the

Show up Anyway Collective

1.

Go from stuck and overwhelm following my templates and step-by-step plans to Templates to help you set priorities and make the most of your day.

2.

Never guess what to say and how to say it when it come to selling yourself, your ideas and making a lasting impression.

3.

Unlimited access to The Get it Done Lab: a variety of how to audio and video tips for leading people and achieving wellness without waiting (till the weekend!)

Beyond equipping you with the tools and strategies to lead confidently, you'll also learn ways to manage wellbeing under challenging situations and prioritize competing demands.

HEY, YOU!

I’m Kandia

 

Your Leadership Trainer, Coach, and personal hype woman helping you show up and speak up in life and business.

After 20 years of consulting and training thousands of workplace leaders across industries and delivering presentations on stages throughout the United States and Africa, I can say that when your confidence grows, your ability to influence, impact, and bounce back from setbacks grows with it.

In the Show Up Anyway Collective, you’ll learn the same mindfulness exercises, management tactics, and communication frameworks that helped my clients lead their teams to achieve extraordinary results, get hired for executive roles, land new clients, and paid speaking engagements, and media coverage on American’s Test Kitchen TV, Fox 5 Baltimore, CNN, Black Enterprise, and more.

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"I reached out to Kandia when my voice was barely audible. "

Now, I am the loudest in those catch-up meetings, and I can confidently ask questions about different things in a composed manner. I wasn't able to do it last year.

- Waithira Kunene

PROGRAM/OUTREACH SPECIALIST

"Kandia's skill and eye for talent are just a few of her finest qualities."

She has been able to not only develop an effective brand strategy for my company but also enhance my personal brand visibility.

As a result, I 'm a co-host on one of PBS’s longest running cooking shows, America’s Test Kitchen, and my brand, SheChef Inc. is growing exponentially.

- Elle Simone

FOUNDER, SHECHEF & PBS: AMERICA'S TEST KITCHEN TV TALENT

"I highly recommend this training for anyone who is looking to boost their personal and professional brand."

My department created a brand new managerial opportunity, and I decided to apply for it. I had a very short application time frame, but the scripts Kandia provided helped me to prepare quickly and articulate the value I would bring to the role and I got the job!

- Samantha McCoy

MARKETING AND PUBLIC RELATIONS CONSULTANT, CEO, MISSIONKEY COMMUNICATIONS

Limited Time Bonuses

When you join before January 20, 2025.


 

1:1 60 Minute Coaching Session With Kandia 

Dive deep into your unique challenges, clarify your vision, and jumpstart your personalized success plan with tailored guidance during a 1:1 coaching session with me.

Master your mindset w/ The Show Up Anyway Journal 

A guided journal featuring prompts and exercises to help you overcome the challenges blocking your success and lead a confident, productive, and fulfilling life.

Frequently Asked Questions

REFUND POLICY FOR THE SHOW UP ANYWAY COLLECTIVE:



I believe in the value of this program and want you to feel confident about your investment.

 

If within 14 days of enrolling, you don’t feel this is the right fit for you, I will refund your payment—provided you’ve attended at least one session and can show that you’ve completed the first module/workshop. This ensures the program is right for those truly ready to show up and take action.